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Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Imagine My Surprise

When we woke up to 
"Cock a doodle doooo!"
The morning after cooking and killing our rooster?! 

There's another one. Sadly, I think it's the white Americauna, Maude. Once we are certain, he'll receive the fate of his brother, Bert. 

Speaking of Bert, check out the chicken fried rice that the Ratsachacks made with him. They brought some over to share. It was really really good. 


Monday, August 10, 2015

"Let Us Oft Speak Kind Words to Each Other..."


I put this up on the chalkboard door in the parlor, today, as a much needed reminder for myself and my family.  I had a different theme in mind for our back to school family theme, but I may be changing it up last minute, this year and going with this scripture. 
Proverbs 15:1 is becoming my mantra for the next however-long-it-takes. 

Dispatched.

WARNING: there are a few images of a chicken being processed on this post. It's no more gross than raw chicken you'd buy at the store...except that a head and feet are still attached. So there's my disclosure in case you aren't in the mood to see a dead chicken. 

Our friends, Ben and Saeng are some of the most genuine people I think I've ever met. They're just awesome.  

Ben offered to take care of our little rooster problem for us. ;) He stopped by with his family and Aaron asked is he needed a cage or a box to take Bert home in. He looked at us like, "uh, why?" And held up a bag. "Do you have a knife?"

At that point my interest piqued. I've watched a few YouTube videos k how to cull a chicken, but they sort of grossed me out too much to actually try it. 
Here it was about to happen in my backyard. I had to participate. What a great learning experience! 

The kids were upset at first. Corbin, in particular, wailed "just because it's a boy you're just going to kill it?! That's do mean!"  Ben, in his calm and gentle nature said very sweetly, but also matter of factly, "Corbin, God loves his children so much, he created a beautiful earth for us to live on. He provided our bodies with  food to eat so we can be strong and do His work. The plants in your garden are a gift to nourish you, as is the chicken.  This rooster is a gift that will not be wasted." 

Corbin and the girls listened and nodded cautiously as they considered Bens words. Then, Corbin saw the knife and lost it again.  This time, as I started to reason with him, he started to come around, and then Saeng brought up the scriptures. "Do you remember that Nephi was a hunter? They were in the wilderness and they were very hungry. Nephi hunted and brought back food and was a hero that provided for his family." 

And so the cycle of life was allowed to be completed in the woods behind Ft Willy. The children didn't watch as we dispatched the rooster, but once it was done, Saeng's Yohng boys ran out to "see all the blood." 
There was hardly any. 

You guys. Killing and cleaning a chicken was not so bad. Like at all. Ok, so it was Ben who did the slicing, but I held the rooster and it really was not a gory mess. It was beautifully humane and almost peaceful.  It gave me a new understanding for why we offer our gratitude when we ask a blessing upon the food at every meal. Countless animals give their lives every day so that we can eat.

We accepted the invite to come help finish the preparation and followed Ben and Saeng to their home.  I wanted desperately for my kids (and even me) to NOT find this gross. While I am grateful that lovely companies like Tyson exist to raise, kill, and clean chickens so that I don't have to, I'm bothered that it is SO foreign. I wouldn't have even known where to begin. Here she is, ready to be plucked. 

I tucked Bert's head out of view for the photo so it wouldn't be too graphic to publish in the blog book for the kids. But really, they were not bothered by the sight at all once they got used to it. 

Ben boiled a large pot of water on an outdoor camp stove on the back porch. 
Saeng and I lowered the chicken into the water about 30 seconds, and turned it around in there a few times. That's it! Time to de feather. This part took us forever, because a) uh hello I've never plucked a chicken before! And b) we paused a lot to get the kids to take a turn. Ben says that a professional van have all the feathers off in less than a minute! 

 
We just sat out on the back porch with the chicken on a metal pan and pulled feathers off and skinned the feet. Minimal mess.  I learned the skin pulls off with the feathers and the meat starts to cook if you leave the chicken in the boiling water for very long. It's just a dip to make the feathers easy to remove. 
Saeng had a special way of sliding her thumb over the feathers and they would slip out easily and quickly. 
Removing the insides of the chicken was the interesting part for the kids. They wanted to know what every part of the chicken was, so each part was laid out on the cutting board for the children to examine. 


There. Now doesn't Bert look just like a whole chicken you'd buy from the store? I mean except for those gigantic feet....
We removed those, too. 


And finally, we cut the chicken into pieces for cooking. Here, Saeng is showing the kids the rib cage. 

I'm so thankful to have great people to learn from, but also for the opportunity to teach my children where their food comes from. We gave the chicken to the Ratsachacks to thank them for teaching us, and they cooked it for dinner last night. 

As we sat at our own table, last night, Reese poked at her salmon and said, "I wish we were eating Bert, instead. I don't like fish." 

Perhaps cleaning a fish is next on the agenda. 

Friday, August 7, 2015

Summer in Bella Vista

Means days on Lake Windsor. It just doesn't feel like August until we've spent an afternoon at the Petersens. Jocelyn was gracious to invite a few friends over for some play time at her lake house. The pool was the perfect temperature and eased my nerves about having 5 kids in the water. The kids had a wonderful time swimming, splashing, swinging, and snacking. I was still pretty stressed most of the time. Good thing Jocelyn is a therapist. That's a good kind of friend to have when you're anxious. Look at my babies on the lake. In just a couple years, this will be so much easier. But for today, I'm glad I didn't put off adventure for 2 years. Carly recently told me there will always be one child that's not the ideal age for a family activity, so why wait to experience them? Carpe Diem! Good call, Carly. I carpe'd it up today. 



It was going great until the very end when I was down at the pool dock pulling the kayak in, when Corbin went to to the pool, removed his life jacket, announced, "I can swim!" And jumped right into the deep end. And sunk. 

All of my grey hairs. All of 'em. 

Reese was in the pool and swam over and pulled him out. He has no respect for her great act of valor, or an understanding of how lucky he is that she was there to save his life. He said casually, "yeah, I thought it was shallow, but it wasn't." And shrugged it off. He sat on this step and wasn't allowed back in the water today. I swear I will never sleep again.  The drowning child nightmares were really getting out of hand. Then my neighbor put a lock on the gate around her pool and I didn't have one for almost a week. It was such a tender mercy. After today, I have a feeling my sleep interrupting panic fests will return with a vengeance. Postpartum Anxiety is such a curse. I need to either get on meds or find a super intense swim instructor who will make my children water safe. Even when they do things like remove their life jacket and jump in a pool with wreckless abandon. Ahhhh! 

Well, it definitely was not a relaxing end to the day, but at least my children were relaxed. That should help ward off the last-week-of-summer-crazy-vibe in my house next week. Next year, I will be the one in the kayak, paddling around the lake with a little lovey toddler on my lap. 

One final noteworthy detail about today is how wonderful my husband is. Jocelyn's home has a looooong crazy steep driveway. I had parked up top by the road and hiked down with all the kids, because of limited parking below. I talked to Aaron briefly on his way home from work and told him of my crazy trek down the hill with 5 kids, towels, a stroller, pool gear, life jackets, diaper bag, and snacks, he commended my bravery.  Then on his way home from work, he sneakily stopped by the petersens, drive my car down and parked it at the house, hiked back up to his car and left. Just so I wouldn't have to push a stroller up the crazy hill with all the wet and tired kids. (It's pretty steep, and really long) I love him so much. He is the best husband, not just because he does little acts of service to save my sanity, but because he dies those things to show me his love.  I married so well. 

Thursday, August 6, 2015

It's a good week to be Meg Willardson.

So we aren't on a beach in California, but this week has been pretty amazing, and here are a few reasons why:

1) On Monday, I decorated back to school cookies with Katie for 2 of the sisters we visit teach. They were so cute I could hardly stand it. 
2) I only have one spot open in my preschool. 
3)I made pancakes for the kiddies for lunch and they were so excited. Hello easy thrills. 
4) I've been using a new workbook for personal scripture study. So far, 2 thumbs up. 

5) Our FHE lesson on using kind words was a success (more on that later) and we played a few games after with minimal crying/"cheating". 

6) On Tuesday, the girls went on a sewing date with Eunice and made shorts got them and started a matching pair for their american girl dolls. I'll post a pic when they're finished. Super cute.  I'm so grateful to have wonderful friends in my life to teach and love my children. 

7) I canned salsa with Carly while the girls were with Eunice. Breaking news: sloane took a 2+ hour nap in a pack n play. This is huge, and we were very productive while she slept! 

8) We also made some incredible homemade pizzas for lunch. Garden tomatoes, fresh mozzarella, basil, pears, and pistachios. Perfection. 

9) On Wednesday, I helped the kids do chores, then they watched a movie while I made baby food for days during naptime/quiet time. Green beans, more squash, peaches, bananas, peaches w/sausage, spinach w/green beans. 

Evidently, she doesn't like the bananas. 

10) I also used a bunch of bell peppers from the garden to make some stuffed peppers. Here's a recipe for what I came  up with. 

Stuffed Peppers 
1 lb ground pork sausage 
1 cup (uncooked) quinoa
Green onions
Chicken broth (I used just 1tsp caldo de pollo) 
Fresh tomato 
Cilantro 
4-6 washed, cored bell peppers. 
Cheese

Cook quinoa (2:1 broth to grain, bring to boil, cover, reduce heat and simmer 10-15 min) in broth. 

Brown meat

Blanch or steam peppers

Mix cooked quinoa with browned meat. Add diced green onions, cilantro, and tomato. 

Stuff the peppers and top with cheese (pepper jack for us, mozzarella for kids). 

Bake at 375 until warm through, cheese is bubbly, and peppers are roasted. Approx. 35 min.
The children ate the filling and left the peppers untouched, save the one bite of "green part" they were required to try.  I will make these again soon! 

11) Before dinner, we went to the square for ice cream at the spark cafe. 

12) Then we took a walk around the square and ended up at the Lawrence plaza splash pad. So they soaked their clothes and had a great time. 
Outside 21C museum hotel. Corbin: "Mom, this car is money!" Indeed it is, son. Literally! 



Before we made it back to the van, the thunder rolled, the sky opened, and we got even more wet! No one minded, not even Sloane. 

13) Last night, I slipped out after bedtime and went for a run with Kasey. A legit run. 
I'm already sore. I can't describe how good it felt to put running shorts on.  I know it's still not my season to get out and run very often...I had to go at 9pm just to go last night, but I'm still really grateful Aaron encouraged me to go do something that he knows I love and makes me happy. 

14) Reese lost a tooth. She said, "Just in time. I'm getting low on cash." 
She's getting braces, next month. She's going to look like a teenager over night. 

15) With the help/encouragement of a friend, I participated in a consignment event. 
Why have I not been doing this for years?  I'll never have a garage sale again. I entered everything Soren and Sloane have outgrown, as well as some things Reese and Quincy are done with that I don't feel like saving for 8-10 years until  Sloane can wear them. It's been so fun to hit refresh every 4 hrs this week and watch my commission go up. :) There are two days left and I'll probably hit $300. Totally worth it. 

16) I'm buying myself a roomba vacuum with the Rhea Lana spoils. Now that Sloane is crawling, it's overwhelming how gross our floors are. It takes an hour to sweep the main level of the house. An hour! Who has time to mop after sweeping for an hour? 
Yesterday I got down on my hands and knees and scrubbed the kitchen tile by hand for the first time in... 
...well anyway ;) it was absolutely disgusting. It's no wonder Sloane's hands are full of hair and dust bunnies every time we pick her up. I can't keep up with it. I know I'll still need to sweep the kitchen daily, but I hope the roomba will help with maintenance a bit so my baby's legs and knees aren't black at the end of every day. Woot woot for a robot vacuum. Dream come true! 

17) We are hosting the missionaries for dinner tonight. 

18) I took the children with me to do a little service project this morning. They were so patient and it went so well I felt like we could do it again sometime soon. I love when they catch the service bug. 

19) I cleaned out another bin of random papers this week and found a listing ad soec sheet for when we bought this home, almost exactly 2 years ago. Sometimes it feels like we haven't "accomplished" any projects around here, because our to-do list is still so long. But the house already looks nothing like the pics in the ad, and reminds me of how much we HAVE already done in just 2 years. I am still grateful every day that I get to live here. I feel very fortunate to have such a beautiful and comfortable place to raise my family. 

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

The one where Betty is a Bert.

 We woke up to something strange at 6am, this morning. 
"Cock-a-doodle-dooooo!!!!" 

Uh oh. 
"One of these things is not like the others. One of these things just doesn't belong...." 
I spy a roo in the Willy flock. 
It would appear that "the chick is goin' through some changes, right now." As Joey would say.  

Of course it had to be one of the black marans, because I was looking forward to their eggs the most. 
Sorry, Betty Lou. But you're a "Bert the Roo" and you have to go. We can't have crowing at Fort Willy. This coop is for da ladies only. 
Your green plume and saddle feathers sure are beautiful, though. 
Anyone need a pretty rooster? 

Monday, August 3, 2015

Things that I'm Stoked About.

I opened registration for preschool at 9am, today. Within one hour I had 4 children registered, and 1 more by dinner.  I only have one spot left! I usually end up with a waiting list, but to be nearly full the first DAY feels really good. This is added confirmation that the decision to teach this year was an inspired one. I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to do something I love, and get paid to do it! Bonus: Soren gets preschool! I can't wait to wear my Mrs. Meg hat again.  Joy. 

Now, to find one more girl to help balance my class.