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Thursday, April 22, 2021

Court On Day 1,191....

Since I can’t post pics the children, I thought I’d post these comically ironic screenshots from a zoom training hosted by the department. It’s for their new “every day counts” initiative, where the department announced a goal to get children who’s parental rights have been terminated adopted within 3 months after the TPR.  Because “children should not be sitting in limbo for over 100 days. That’s unacceptable.”

Can you hear me laughing yet? 
I spent almost four hours in court today. 
One of those hours was where I was being vilified... you know, for advocating for children who are suffering in limbo. My capability as a mother was challenged. 

Listen. I am far from perfect. 
But this I know:

I am an excellent mother. 
It is my life’s greatest work. 
And I am doing a damn good job. 

Today was a disgusting disappointment, that I should  not allow to hurt me or surprise me any more, but it still does. 
Also, while we are on the topic of how people doing at their jobs, here’s a stat for everyone: 

The twins have been in foster care for 1,191 days. 
One THOUSAND, one HUNDRED, and NINETY-one days. 

Another fun fact: 
Parental rights were terminated 728 days ago. 
SEVEN HUNDRED TWENTY EIGHT DAYS. 
And thanks to a DEPARTMENT APPEAL, they’re will be hundreds more days of waiting ahead. 

Who is failing what now? 
Ok then. 











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