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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Orderly Conduct

When Reese was struggling with the adjustment to Kindergarten and having to be ready to leave the house at 6:40am (yup. School starts so early here. Cruel, isn't it?), fully loaded tantrums were blowing up in our house on a daily basis. It was rough. Even when we picked out clothes the night before, we still ended up with a problem in the morning, when Reese would change her mind and not want to wear the outfit she'd selected and demand her share (and a half) of our attention while we helped her pick something else out. I know that the problem was not actually the clothes, but getting dressed always seemed to be the thing that pushed Reese's morning anxiety into panic attacks and ugly temper tantrums. Reese was also always wanting to wear the same thing every day. Once she'd get over the discomfort of an outfit, she didn't want to change and readjust to something else. Call me uptight, but I'm not going to let my kid wear the same outfit to school, every day, for a week.
My sister, HolleeAnn (hollah!) gave me this fantastic idea that was the perfect solution to abolish morning outfit drama.



A closet shoe hanger!

There are two shown, here, because the solution worked so well, we went out and got one for Quincy. (and for those who know how bad my OCD is, YES. It totally drives me crazy that they are different sizes. The product changed in the 3 weeks between when we bought the first and when we bought the 2nd. Oh well. Aren't you proud of me for just letting it go? You'll also notice that I didn't go through and fold all the little outfits before taking this picture just so it would appear that I live a June Cleaver lifestyle. I did pick the apple core up off the carpet before I snapped the picture. Keepin' it real, folks.)

Anyway, On Sunday Night, Reese and I select her outfits for the week, and put one in each "cubby" of the shoe holder. Everything. Socks, underwear, jacket, hairbows, sometimes even shoes. In the morning, she can choose which outfit she would like to wear that day. We've had a few problems come up, usually on Fridays, when there was only one option left, or on a PE day when Reese's selected outfit didn't include PE friendly shoes. Also, Quincy still manages to work in at least one costume change every day. But, for the most part, our routine morning clothing drama is gone!

And now, there is a lot more room in the dressers, so we can actually see what is in them.
Works for us.
Thanks, HolleeAnn!

8 comments:

Clandestine Road said...

That is such an excellent solution!

We use these too for our coat closet. I don't like how they look (we got our at Big Lots and they are a pus yellow color), but they work great.

You're a great mom.

Kasey said...

Very clever idea!

Tamara Hart Heiner said...

what a totally totally awesome, cool idea!

natalie said...

when i saw the picture, before i read on, i thought "cool, but they are different sizes, that would totally drive me nuts!" so good for you for letting it go. some of the bed rooms in my house are such a mess you can hardy walk in them (i won't say whos) but different size cubbie thingies, that i couldn't handle. go figure. great idea though.

Mamarazzi said...

You. Are. Welcome.

thanks for the shout out, it's nice to know that my ideas are good ones now and then.

(:

katie said...

HolleeAnn thanks Meg told me about your idea and now I use it in the mornings. I have been able to get away with not having so many melt downs its great. Also my kids love it because we are not spending our mornings searching for socks.

Missie Keller said...

Great idea!

Kristin Hanson said...

Brilliant!

I use the same things to hold our winter gear. So much easier than pawing through a drawer or a basket looking for the matching mitten/hat/scarf.

My mom would always give me two outfit choices to chose from in the morning when I was a kid. She swears that's why I went fashion nuts in jr high and wore converse, mismatched socks, rolled up jeans and my dad's old plaid shirts to school... when I wasn't wearing some fugly 70s number. Hopefully Reese will not be affected that way.