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Sunday, October 14, 2018

Sunday School Stratego

I had a lesson and discussion on Spiritual Self Reliance prepared for Sunday school today, then got a text from the SS Pres that Reese’s teachers are traveling and would I mind combining classes? Yay! Always an easy “yes!” when former students can join in. Combining also creates a completely different dynamic, as Reese’s class is primarily female, and my current class is entirely male. Putting the two together just bring so much excitement. 

I knew right away that I needed to include an adapted version of the lesson I taught the stake primary children last month. 






Sunday school has never been so much fun. They were an incredibly lively today, but reverent and engaged and each of these twelve amazing youth had something to say. They made brilliant connections between the scriptures and doctrine taught in General Conference last week and their present day lives and roles as youth in the Lord’s Battalion. They shared personal stories of success and repentance and why faith and humility are necessary components for change. These kids really are great company for a Sunday afternoon. I loved teaching them and I’m repeatedly thankful for their vulnerability and participation and their testimonies and the lessons they teach me. 

Saturday, October 13, 2018

Sloane’s First Trip to the Dentist



Sloane was very excited to go to the dentist for her first cleaning.
Until she realized that HER dentist is not the Disneyland of fun clinic that is the twin’s dentist. Haha! Sorry, Sloane, no movies on the ceiling or farm theme, here!  She did have a very patient hygienist, who didn’t give up when girlfriend refused to open her mouth. She had Sloane watch while I had my teeth done, and then they tried again on Sloane. Finally, I held her on my lap and basically just pried her mouth open. Once she tasted the bubble gum toothpaste, she was delightful. 



Look at that adorable little cross bite. Many many Tenney cousins have it, and Sloane’s is quite extreme, thanks to her habit of sucking on one finger. Someday in the future, that cute little smile is going to cost us a fortune! 

Music to a Mother’s Ears

The Willy Kids are doing well to practice their instruments more regularly, this year. Much of this has to do with their teachers, who inspire them and encourage them to let go of perfection and just try. They are learning to love their instruments and finding great joy in playing. This is music to my ears. 








Down Syndrome Connection Inclusion Walk





Reese and Quincy volunteered as Tinkerbell and Princess Aurora at the Down Syndrome Inclusion Walk with Sierra S., Emma W., MaKenzie S., Cadence J., and Emily H. as princesses.  They worked the event, hugging and talking with and posing for photos with event attendees. 

Our friend Danielle is the board president of the NWA Down Syndrome Connection and we joined many others who walked as part of Bradley’s Bunch “Down Right Perfect”. This boy is so funny and delightful! 
And his mama. Well, today was one of those days where I was just happy to be surrounded by such talented and capable and hard working women.  They put on an incredible event and I’m so grateful to have friends who choose to do such good things.  A friend gave me some advice about 12 years ago to surround myself with women who make the world better. As I watched Dani, Jill, Tia, Cheylee, and so many other wonderful girlfriends who were there serving the community today, I thought, “these girls! They are the “certain women” the Savior describes for those who know abd do his work. They are builders, not breakers. They are compassionate and they SEE needs and get stuff done. They are steadfast and immovable. They are not weary in their well doing. They are women of substance and faith and honor.  I’m thankful my daughters got to see their example and had an opportunity to be a part of these good works.





















The chinelos dancers were my fave. Inclusion everywhere! 




























Wednesday, October 10, 2018

The Prophet Daniel Inspires the Willy Family

I have had the biblical story of Daniel pressing on my heart and turning gears in my mind for more than a couple of weeks.  These thoughts have followed me to sleep, to when I’m driving in the car, on runs, to Utah, to the temple, to the Roots of Knowledge art installation, to conversations with wise friends, to General Conference, and back home to Arkansas, and now to the blog. I showed this video to my family for FHE to hear their feedback, thoughts, and ideas. https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2011-03-10-god-gave-them-knowledge?lang=eng 

In the General Women’s Conference Session, we were asked to read the Book of Mormon again by the end of the year, attend the temple more regularly (or study about temple blessings), participate fully in Relief Society, and participate in a 10 day social media fast (or any negative media) and record what we observe. 

Back to Daniel. 
Obedience are Knowledge are two themes we’re really focusing on in our family.  
We noticed a similarity that Daniel abstained from King Nebuchadnezzar’s wine and meat fest (haha the kids called his feast a “bacon cleanse” like the skit from Studio C) for 10 days, and his obedience gave him great knowledge and wisdom as well as the gift of understanding visions and interpretation of dreams. Daniel then used these gifts to bless others.  The Prophet, President Russel M Nelson, encouraged a social media fast for as many days.  I will not speculate what specific outcome await the members of my family who choose to engage in following the prophet, but through personal revelation, I do know of a few promised blessings that are specific to us.  

With this knowledge we questioned our children in FHE, “how are we going to do the things we’ve been asked to do? 

They suggested waking up earlier and doing scripture study in the morning, before school, instead of at bedtime, when we are distracted by the happenings of the day (or our end of the day feelings about each other haha!) 
So here is the Willardson Family on day one of early morning family scripture study.  We still do a shorter “scripture time” in the evening with family prayers, so the 3 littles can participate. Getting the 4 big kids up earlier is, so far, exactly as difficult and as easy as we anticipated.  We have faith that this will bring our family close together and give us knowledge we desire. “Tired, but hopeful” is just great. 
I put up some words from Joseph Brough’s talk on our chalkboard, this weekend. You’ve got this, Willies! 






As we approach our first successful week of a higher effort, the children report that waking up earlier is not easy at all, but they like reading more than just a page or part of one chapter. Soren confidently said in the FHE where we created our plan, “I’m going to be blessed as a better reader!”—and then he threw up all night.  The next morning we all got up for day one, and Soren was sleeping on a blanket on the living room floor with a puke bowl. We tried to let him sleep but he pulled his blanket into the kitchen floor and sleepily said, “is today when we follow the prophet?” And he listened from the floor and asked for a turn to read between pukes. Soren’s obedience inspired me to try a little harder to be a force for good in my home and to lead my family in righteousness by not complaining about the early hour, but instead boast joyfully in the goodness of the blessing that has been given to my family and recognize the great privilege it is that it’s even possible for all of us to be awake and together to read at the same time, and that at least one of my children is totally enthusiastic about it. Others have been less than pleasant on differing days, abd I hope that part gets easier (it WAS their idea after all!)  but if not, at least in their murmuring, were still willing to come to the table and be present and that is a success. We are committed to just try try try. 

More about what we’re learning from Daniel to come in a future post. Most importantly, I hope our family draws closer to the Savior, Jesus Christ, as we practice exact obedience ttogether.





Soren gets the Big 3 Award!



Soren was the chosen recipient of the Cooper Big Three Award, this month, at Roundup! 
The Big Three are: 
1) Treating others right
2) Making wise decisions 
3) Maximizing his potential 

Way to go, Soren! You do all of these things and more. You keep being you! We love you!

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